paper-machine comments on Rational Romantic Relationships, Part 1: Relationship Styles and Attraction Basics - Less Wrong

48 Post author: lukeprog 05 November 2011 11:06AM

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Comment author: [deleted] 24 November 2011 12:30:18AM *  6 points [-]

I can talk to anyone, you're engaging, he's a creepy PUA?

Comment author: [deleted] 24 November 2011 12:33:57AM 1 point [-]

I don't understand the question, sorry. Will you rephrase?

Comment author: [deleted] 24 November 2011 12:38:45AM 0 points [-]

I'm playing the usual game: I'm <something positive>, you're <something neutral>, he's <something negative>. It's not really a question.

Comment author: [deleted] 24 November 2011 12:51:57AM 1 point [-]

I still don't really get it. Are you opposed to repurposing PUA soft technology to help teach social skills?

I don't care if people use PUA otherwise and I certainly don't want to get caught in this thread's quagmire.

Comment author: wedrifid 24 November 2011 01:25:08AM 6 points [-]

I still don't really get it.

It's a lighthearted cultural reference (which does have something of a useful moral embedded within). A common form is "I'm strong willed, you're stubborn and she's pig headed". It is just a comment about the same thing being labelled differently depending on how closely we associate with it. It tends to be approximately neutral to the subject matter.

Comment author: [deleted] 24 November 2011 01:37:53AM 0 points [-]

Ah, ok. Thanks for the clarification.

Comment author: [deleted] 24 November 2011 12:56:02AM 0 points [-]

I don't have an opinion on PUA. I'm just playing a game.

Comment author: [deleted] 24 November 2011 11:10:49PM *  0 points [-]

I'm still chewing this one over. Can you give me an example of persuasion that doesn't follow this format in some way? How would I convince <someone neutral> to stop doing <something negative> without first qualifying my idea as <something positive>? Is it bad if these categories are personified?