Sorry for taking so long to answer, but I think you might have misunderstood my problem slightly, I don't have any problem with getting over anyone - at the moment). I do agree that a couple of beers helps out with suppressing excessive self-questioning, but my problem is really - though I'm making progress - that I don't know what I'm feeling as well as feeling guilt about not not feeling butterflies in my tummy and the likes.

Anyway thanks for your advise - and the offer!