I apologize. Even if my comment had had a small probability of being helpful, I should have stated it differently, and I did jump to more conclusions than was warranted.

I didn't mean to imply a misinterpretation, though. If you did go around saying things like that, the pattern-matching would be the whole problem. If you actually believed something to the effect of "people with IQ less than X are not worth knowing", that might also be an obstacle, but at a later stage of relationship-forming. In any case, that appears to be irrelevant.