This vid on relationship issues helped me get aware of reasons I may be such a bad date! things i'm gonna work on from the vid: flaking or trash talking commitments, hostile existing relationship with family when I let down my guard that could be scripted over, sense of entitlement with resentment and anger that I am the priority, lots of relationship fails that I attribute to others and not me, flexibility and getting frazzled when things aren't exactly how I want them, and iron sharpens iron but from the man's perspective to women