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To those who read Wei Dai's post:

Keep in mind that what you are signaling to others is not what you intended to signal, but the message that others receive. Perhaps you want to signal that "costly signaling is mostly a zero-sum game and I like to opt out of zero-sum games", but that's almost certainly not the signal that anybody else is actually receiving.

More likely, by wearing clothes that don't fit and don't match, the signal that most people are receiving is:

I don't care enough about social skills to invest energy into fashion, and so you can raise your probability that I haven't invested energy into other social skills, either. If you talk to me, there is a greater probability that I will create an awkward situation than if you talk to somebody who is clearly fashionable. I am also more likely to exhibit other effects of lack of investment into social skills.

And remember, most of this isn't conscious. If you haven't studied this stuff explicitly, most likely what happens when somebody walks into the room who is badly dressed and walks with a hunch is a visceral feeling inside of you that you don't have much desire to talk to that person and they make you a little bit uncomfortable. In contrast, if somebody walks into the room with open body language and good fashion and a big smile and a straight back, you're more likely to feel like you want to be around that person and will have fun as a result of interacting with them. (I'm using 'you' in an arbitrary sense to talk about any particular person in a social situation.)

NancyLebovitz14y70

What impression would you say is apt to be given by positive body language combined with moderately bad clothes?

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13th Jun 2011

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Yesterday I attended a meetup where the discussion turned to fashion for a time (because apparently the mini-camp participants were given some instructions on fashion as a useful part of instrumental rationality). (Unfortunately none of us knew much about the topic so the discussion turned into "how can we find an expert to advise us for minimal cost?") It was mentioned that dressing "badly" can be a useful signalling device, and some examples were given. Here's an attempt at a more complete list of possible signals one might be sending by dressing "badly".

I have better use of my time than thinking about what to wear. Since thinking about what to wear is generally a highly valuable use of time, perhaps I'm really productive at something else.
I'm in a profession where technical skills are valued above social skills.
Costly signaling is mostly a zero-sum game. I like to opt out of zero-sum games.
Either I'm a loner or none of my friends care about fashion either. If you care a lot about fashion, our interests are probably too different, and us socializing is probably not the best use of your time or mine.
I'm a member of a group or subculture where dressing "badly" is normative and used for identification/affiliation.

The idea here is, if you do decide to start dressing "well", know what you're giving up first. (Of course you're also giving up possibly implying that nobody taught you how to dress and you're not sufficiently strategic to have thought of learning it yourself. Or implying that you don't have the mental, financial, and/or social resources to keep up with fashion. A lot of signaling depends on what your audience already knows about you, or can infer from your other signals.) See also Yvain's related post, Why Real Men Wear Pink and comments there.

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[-]lukeprog14y430

To those who read Wei Dai's post:

More likely, by wearing clothes that don't fit and don't match, the signal that most people are receiving is:

I don't care enough about social skills to invest energy into fashion, and so you can raise your probability that I haven't invested energy into other social skills, either. If you talk to me, there is a greater probability that I will create an awkward situation than if you talk to somebody who is clearly fashionable. I am also more likely to exhibit other effects of lack of investment into social skills.

7NancyLebovitz14y

What impression would you say is apt to be given by positive body language combined with moderately bad clothes?

[-]Zvi14y320

There are signaling benefits to dressing poorly, but if you're reading Less Wrong's discussion forums I'd set a very high prior on your error being on the side of undervaluing fashion rather than overvaluing it. This is coming from a person whose wardrobe is in large part things handed out for free at tournaments.

[-]lucidfox14y230

I have a suspicion you're just trying to rationalize your existing mode of behavior.

2Wei Dai14y

I had the same suspicion (and also that I like being contrarian too much), and tried to compensate for the bias in the post. Do you think the resulting text is still substantially biased? Or just that it's a good idea for readers to keep the suspicion in mind while they consider my post?

3atucker14y

That seems like the most biased statement in the post, because it increases the salience of the idea that dressing badly might be a good choice. The rest of it seemed fairly unbiased, except for the whole rationalization bit.

[-]Rain14y230

Those attempting to ignore fashion might say "function over form", yet the form of clothes have quite a bit of function: social affiliation, likeability, attractiveness, and other important aspects of dealing with humans are directly affected by fashion. My recent research on the topic suggests that it's a highly specialized field, requiring a great deal of continuing research and effort to understand in depth.

The issues of concern are:

Fit. How well does the item conform to your body shape? This is critically important and yet very difficult to assess in a quantifiable or repeatable way, and is therefore the area where an expert would make the most difference. Of note, tailoring an existing item can be very cheap, as little as $5 to $15 for shirt alterations (of course there are many that charge more), with much to learn from the tailor's advice.
Quality / Cost. The fabric used, the location and process of manufacture, the conformity to accepted standards, and the dollar cost. Most purchases by the fashion conscious are done using sales, and the "retail price" is the sucker price. ("Nobody pays retail.") Bespoke (custom, or personally made for you)

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6Will_Newsome14y

To point out the obvious, the point at which you're worrying about "currency" is too far beyond the point of diminishing marginal returns for most LW folk. This is referring to the difference between $40-150 per article and $1000+ per article when holding "fit" roughly constant, correct? (It's not quite obvious from context.)

8Rain14y

Yes, fit is paramount, details are secondary. In-the-field testing from members of fashion forums show that people on the street are generally unable to identify quality from sight alone, hence the propensity of some labels to provide very large and garish branding. Appropriately, those who I quoted attempt to find articles of better quality without a visible brand name, since symbols like that ruin much of the effect. It also provides a higher barrier to entry, though conforming too closely to community norms can get you labeled "dressed by the internet". Many of the $1000 items are purchased at much lower prices due to losing "currency" yet still meeting the other attributes. Access to deep discounts like this is only available in-store in major cities (NYC, LA). Ebay is also frequented, along with foreign shops, though with heavy analysis for fakes and by using trust networks and proxy buyers. Also note that the currency effect happens even for the most common brands - they're following the luxury designers, perhaps behind by a season or two. Why did they have that really nice shirt at J.C Penny last month, but now you can't find it? They don't make it any more, because it was St. John's Bay S/S 10. Check the clearance racks and stick to the classics.

4Barry_Cotter14y

Please consider writing up a (discussion) post on your experiences. It sounds fascinating. I personally would be particularly interested in changes in how the less fashion conscious reacted to you.

[-]Rain14y140

To quickly answer that, people definitely noticed when I started dressing better, and I received many positive remarks and a few negative.

Some of the more telling comments:

A friend: "Nice shirt... you know, I try not to judge, and that's why I hung out with you, but you're really looking better after your fashion project." To me, this hints that I was being judged (for years?) by this person, even though they're my friend.

A family member: "Those are really nice boots, where can I get those? They're almost work boots... though far too nice to be wearing out here in the woods! And those jeans.. be careful, that shade of denim can bleed onto white shirts like that, trust me, I know all about fabric." This is from my Aunt, who creates many bespoke shirts for her family, and has worked in craft stores for decades. Tellingly, it was just Levi's and Doc Martens (both classics), with the proper colors and fit.

My boss: "You know, when I first I saw you, I thought to myself, 'I hired that?!' But you really cleaned up well." I had a phone interview for the position. This says to me it's very likely I would not have been hired due to looks alone, but that I had im... (read more)

2jsalvatier13y

What fashion forums have you used?

4Rain13y

styleforum.net primarily (male focus), and many sites linked from there.

0jsalvatier13y

Thanks :)

0jsalvatier13y

I would really really like to see a discussion/top level post about your experience and advice on this topic.

0lukeprog14y

Agree.

[-]Vladimir_M14y130

Another important observation is that there are at least two very different ways of dressing "badly." One is dressing in a tacky and sloppy way with complete disregard for aesthetics, and the other involves breaking the conventions of formal wear but still dressing neatly and stylishly. The latter, I think, can be a useful signaling device in some situations where adherence to formal wear may lower your status by making you look like you're trying hard to please others.

The prime example would be situations like job interviews (especially in technical fields), where you're expected to dress up, but those you have do deal with are not, because they enjoy a position of superiority. When you show up for those wearing something obviously more formal than what you wear on a daily basis, you signal that you're trying hard to please the people you have to deal with. A much better signal can be achieved by dressing in a stylish but less formal way that signals all the right things in terms of social aptitude etc., but makes you look less like a supplicant, especially if it looks plausible that this is how you actually dress on a daily basis.

Of course, this can backfire if you exaggerate with informality, or if you use a wrong sort of casual style.

[-]khafra14y130

Michael Vassar has advocated wearing a fashionable, well-fitting suit with Vibram Fivefingers to properly countersignal--since without showing the capability of properly signaling, the "counter" part is lost.

5Desrtopa14y

If I saw that, I would assume the person was trying to make a statement, but I would not be very receptive to it since those things look ridiculous. It's like applying an Uncanny Valley skin to your feet.

2MixedNuts14y

But their looking ridiculous is part of the point!

0A1987dM12y

Vibram Fivefingers look hideous to be, but sometimes I wear fashionable clothes and then put on a ridiculous rainbow fedora hat with paillettes.

[-]atucker14y130

Costly signaling is mostly a zero-sum game. I like to opt out of zero-sum games.

I wouldn't choose to signal this via not dressing well. Its too many inferential steps for most people, and clothing doesn't have to be super costly. Dressing to look better than other people might be zero sum, but I doubt if just dressing well is.

6Alexei14y

I think you make a very good point. Most people who don't care about clothing style, will also not care about yours. (Self-example: until I studied a bit of fashion recently, I didn't care at ALL what other people were wearing.) So signaling to them seems useless, since they are not even receiving input on that frequency.

[-]Vladimir_M14y120

Dressing well is not entirely a zero sum game. Depending on how you look, you create a positive or negative externality on other people around you by making their environment more or less aesthetically pleasing. This also has clear signaling implications, separate from those status signaling issues that you have in mind.

[-]jhuffman14y110

Have you ever found yourself thinking "this person sounds interesting but they are just dressed too well to take seriously"?

0gucciCharles8y

lol,No.

[-]Will_Newsome14y90

For people inculcated from a young age with a desire to be perfect along all possible dimensions, dressing well is essential and you will get a huge self-confidence (non-self-loathing?) boost from doing so. (I imagine such inculcation is a lot more common among LW folk than most.)

[-]HughRistik14y60

Fashion is the intersection of social skills and aesthetics as applied to clothing. Fashion and style matter for the same reason that social skills and aesthetics matter. Lukeprog gave a good summary of how people will rationally make judgments about you based on your appearance.

You can't "opt out" of fashion anymore that you can opt out of web design. There is a reason why the web no longer looks like this. Regardless of whether clothing is a zero-sum game, it's a pervasive enough game that trying to opt out doesn't let you escape: it just makes you lose.

3Wei Dai14y

I'm not sure what summary you are referring to, and couldn't find it with a Google search. Can you give a link? What do you think my website's design says about me? (See also the site for my crypto library which probably has more viewers than my personal site.)

7HughRistik13y

Here is lukeprog's comment I was referring to. What it says to me is: "I'm a smart programmer who wrote this page by hand. If you're a programmer, you know that you don't need me to spend time on CSS to display technical information. If you're not a programmer, this web page isn't for you... go away." What a non-programmer will probably think: "WTF??! Was this page made in 1997? I'm getting the hell out of here..." Since your website is for programmers, and plenty of programmers don't bother with CSS on their personal pages, your web design actually may be appropriate. Flouting CSS could be a form of costly signaling, because it will scare off non-programmers. Furthermore, it signals that you feel you have better things to write than CSS. However, nowadays I've noticed that programmers are often using blogging software for their personal websites, so I don't know how long bare HTML will be an effective sort of web design among programmers.

[-]cousin_it14y60

I have the same suspicion as lucidfox. Also,

Costly signaling is mostly a zero-sum game. I like to opt out of zero-sum games.

This is self-defeating, no? Dressing badly to send a signal is costly signaling.

6Wei Dai14y

Perhaps an even stronger bias on my part is that I want to see more people in the world who are like me, i.e., who are interested in and capable of solving some of the same problems as me. When I look back on my life and try to see how I got here, it seems like "not caring much about socializing and social skills" is a big part of it, since that freed up a lot of time and energy to think. I'm worried that things like LW and mini-camp with their message of "being a good rationalist means you should learn social skills" are "killing off" those future people.

4cousin_it14y

Paul Graham made a similar point in "Why Nerds are Unpopular". It's true that socializing doesn't help me solve hard problems, but I still do it because it makes me happier.

1Wei Dai14y

I wonder how much of "socializing makes me happier" has to do with alcohol. (I have a genetic condition somewhat common amongst East Asians that makes my liver unable to process alcohol properly, so I can't drink.) Also, sorry to tell you this, but I consider your happiness secondary to getting my list of questions answered. :)

[-]Vladimir_M14y100

I wonder how much of "socializing makes me happier" has to do with alcohol.

I'd say this hypothesis is false. Even in places like where drinking is out of the question, like most workplaces, people are normally much happier if they're surrounded by others with whom pleasant socializing is possible. My work, for example, demands long periods of intense individual concentration, but my happiness, morale, and ultimately also productivity would still suffer greatly if I were surrounded by completely unsociable coworkers, even if formal work-related communication with them went flawlessly.

0Vladimir_Nesov14y

Very implausible. (I also don't like socializing. And don't drink...)

3NancyLebovitz14y

I gave you an up vote, but I've got mixed feelings about it. I dress casually, and not to impress, but I wonder if I'm missing something. Is it plausible that people who want to affect the world should find a way to care enough about social skills to trot them out for occasional use, but mostly (especially when young) spend most of their time on other things? Maybe a rationalist community can share the mental work of dressing well (keeping track of fashion and good deals) so that it's less onerous for individuals.

2BenLowell14y

Where dressing better and social skills are important is if you want to go outside of the solving problem arena and try to spread solutions to other people. Edit: From person to person, rather than through writing.

0MixedNuts13y

Parse "dressing badly" as "dressing as you would if clothes signaled nothing". It is costly (social cost), and it is signalling, but it's not costly signalling in the same sense as "I'm going to buy a suit instead of diamond-studded ice cream".

0fburnaby13y

Yes. As long as we all occupy meat-space, I don't think this is a game that we can opt out of. Hacker culture at least prefers simple t-shirts to anything fancy or expensive. But even there, a clever one is probably better than a plain one.

[-]Nisan14y40

It's not clear what you mean by dressing "badly". I'd agree that it can be advantageous to dress "badly", as long as you do it right.

2Rain14y

I take it to mean "without proper fashion sense, recognizable by any target reference class", rather than the more typical phrases "dressing down", which means to be less formal, or "costumey", which would be trying to fit a particular style very closely.

[-]Qiaochu_Yuan12y20

This post commits the relation projection fallacy with respect to the word "signal," which isn't a two-place predicate but a three-place predicate (at least): the well-formed sentence isn't "X signals Y" but "X signals Y to audience Z." Two values of Z that might be relevant to LessWrongers are "rationalists" and "most people," and there's no reason to expect the answers to be similar in the two cases. For Z = "most people," options 1 and 3 in particular strike me as wishful thinking.

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[-][anonymous]13y20

How about this:

-6. I buy my clothes from thrift stores (which explains why they don't quite fit, and aren't "in fashion") because I'm more concerned with social/environmental/economic responsibility than I am fashion.

[-]FiftyTwo13y20

I think the dressing well vs badly dichotomy may be misleading here, a better analogy might be with similarity to certain archetypes.

For example neither Barack Obama or Justin Timberlake dress 'badly' but he way they dress is radically different. So if you want to alter your social perceptions dress in a manner similar to the archetype most relevant to your goals.

Applying this, if you are in a university environment your goals might be wanting the professor to treat your work favourably, and possibly be lenient in cases. Hence you can choose similarity t... (read more)

[-]MrMind14y20

There's dressing 'well' and there's dressing 'normally' (within the norm of your social group). Sometimes, dressing well for a subculture is dressing bad for the social norm.

The best algorithm I know of to handle all the dressing well area is:

1) identify the subculture you normally are a part of and that you most like to be a part of;

2) identify the general trend of each subculture and learn when they 'fire' (when it's proper they're active and they're not);

3) lower the mental cost of signaling-by-dress, by buying a proper single clothe you like once every 2/3 weeks.

[-]scientism14y20

There's different "levels" of dressing well. For example, with respect to point 1, not everybody who dresses well puts a lot of effort into it or looks like they put a lot of effort into it. Somebody can dress very simply and effortlessly and be considered well dressed. Somebody else might put a lot of obvious attention into how they dress and look awful (i.e., a "fashion victim"). (To make matters more confusing you can spend $2000+ on a t-shirt, jeans and canvas shoes. So you can look casually and simply dressed but be very self-consc... (read more)

[-]j_andrew_rogers14y20

I have typically sought advice (and occasionally received unsolicited advice) from fashion-aware women, most of whom are happy to demonstrate their domain expertise. This has proven to be an efficient strategy that produces good results for relatively low cost. Most of the men I know that dress well rely on a similar strategy; the dearth of men who are savvy at this suggests a somewhat complex signaling game at work.

Take advantage of specialization. It is no different than when individuals solicit advice for me on a matter about which I am perceived as knowledgeable. People enjoy demonstrating their expertise.

[-]XiXiDu14y20

Unfortunately none of us knew much about the topic so the discussion turned into "how can we find an expert to advise us for minimal cost?

You don't need an expert, go into a shop where you can buy clothes and ask some sales women/girl to help you dress. Tell them for what occasion you want to get dressed. This will work well enough (i.e. much better than what you would be able to come up with yourself and its free).

[-]Vladimir_M14y120

Be careful, though. At least in North America, people who sell clothes often work for commission, and it's in their interest to sell you as much expensive stuff as possible, regardless of how good it really looks on you. Moreover, unless you have a body shape that fits the standard cuts very well (and very few people do, even among those who are fit and handsome), and unless you buy the same standardized item repeatedly, you'll usually need to go to several stores before you run into something that fits you really well.

Thus, it's much better to figure out how to recognize well fitting clothes yourself, and (for men) it's generally not a bad idea to bring along a lady friend or relative for advice. (This also makes it easier to resist the salespeople's pressure, since you'll feel like they can't blame you if she frowns.)

Of course, if you're rich enough that money's not an issue, custom-tailored stuff is the way to go.

1Zvi14y

On the low to medium end it seems logistically impossible for there to be a link given the way they set up the store.

3Vladimir_M14y

I guess that depends on what exactly you consider as "low to medium." If at the cash register they ask whether any of the staff helped you with the purchase, it's likely that they get a commission for it. At least where I live, that will normally be the case in places where you can get someone to help you seriously.

0Will_Newsome14y

(A typical example of such a store is J. Crew.)

7Vaniver14y

Isn't this an explanation of how to find an expert who is already paid to help you?

[-]InquilineKea14y10

Hahaha, I agree that bad clothes can sometimes be an good signal of rationality. I actually know 4 professors here who wear socks with sandals.

On the other hand, though, there are certain clothing combinations that a significant fraction of people can't stand (that being said, I know a number of people who can't stand fashionable clothes like high heels either). Sometimes, a certain set of clothes can make someone less willing to talk to you, which can translate into a lost opportunity. Now, whether that set of clothes coincides with the set of non-fashionable clothing by the population you're potentially interested in - that's an open question

2timtyler14y

What's supposed to be wrong with wearing socks with sandals?

5MixedNuts14y

Meh, fashion is largely arbitrary. What's wrong with wearing a toga as opposed to a tie, and would the ancient Greeks agree? But still - sandals are supposed to show your feet (possibly signalling something about accepting some discomfort), and you're defeating that. Also, you shouldn't show your socks much. (Formal suits have long, rigid pant legs that entirely hide the part not hidden by the shoe.)

1Rain13y

It occurs to me that there are likely many more fashion relativists than moral relativists in this community.

0MixedNuts13y

Are you implying there's an objectively (not written in the stars, but deductible from human brains) optimal way to dress? That strikes me as strange; I'm pretty sure the optimal world would contain a bunch of different cultures, and I can't see why they'd share clothing styles more than any other characteristic; also, implementations of human minds that can wear clothes in the first place don't strike me as particularly good.

0Rain13y

I don't know. I hadn't thought about it before. Objective morals strike me as strange, too.

2MixedNuts13y

What's strange about being a fashion relativist, then? (Well, not a complete relativist - accepting there are objectively ugly ways to dress, but anything beyond that is culture-dependent or arbitrary.) Note that the flavor of objective morals I'm referring to is not "There's a magic stone tablet in the fabric of the universe, which humans can't access (so if an AI finds it and it says 'Kill all humans' then I want the AI to do so).", more like "Considerations (that move me to accept considerations (that move me to accept considerations (...))) that move me, in a chain of changing my values according my meta-values, not by external accident".

0Rain13y

I just thought that if you took some of the posts here, and did a find-replace on "moral" to "fashionable", they might make just as much sense. Example:

0MixedNuts13y

That's the "non-relativism" bit. So you claim that if cosmic rays suddenly struck everyone in the world, making them believe that wearing colanders on one's head was the most beautiful thing ever (with since aesthetic appreciation and all that), colanders would still be ugly in some real sense, and it would be a sad thing that knowledge of their ugliness was lost? Also, nitpick: That one doesn't work, you lose the recursion. Changing your wardrobe doesn't change the aesthetics that will change your wardrobe later on. Does it?

0Rain13y

I claim nothing. I just thought it was an interesting line of thought, one that helped me see the meta-morality debate in a new light. Discussing a vantage point, so to speak. Sorry for bringing it up; I doubt we'll be making any progress on meta-aesthetics, if such a thing existed.

-4Peterdjones13y

EDIT Downvoted for disagreement it was. The key point in my argument was that morality needs to be objective because it leads to objective sanctions: someone is either imprisoned or not. There is no such parallel with fashion.

0Rain13y

I didn't downvote you.

0Rain13y

What?

-1Peterdjones13y

Why Objectivism? At first glance, morality looks as though it should work objectively. The mere fact that we praise and condemn people's moral behaviour indicates that we think a common set of rules is applicable both to us and to them. We can say that something is good-to-Mary but evil-to-John, but we cannot act on that basis, because someone is either in jail or they are not. To put it another way, if ethics were strongly subjective anyone could get off the hook by devising a system of personal morality in which whatever they felt like doing was permissible. It would be hard to see the difference between such a state of affairs and having no morality at all. The subtler sort of subjectivist (or relativist) tries to ameliorate this problem by claiming that moral principles are defined at the societal level. Although this constrains individuals to societal norms (as do legal systems), similar problems the get-out-of-jail objection re-occurs at the societal level; a society (such as the Thuggees or Assassins) could declare that murder is OK with them. The foregoing assumes a rational or explicable relationship between the doing of right and wrong, and the subsequent allocation of praise and blame, reward and punishment. It could be argued that we can do without this, and just punish arbitrarily, and not bother reasoning things out. Since are not all in agreement on a single objective morality, that is to some extent the case. In democracies, punishment and reward are decided by an averaging out of opinion, and in other societies by the whim of the powerful. However, this is no a desirable state of affairs even if it is an inevitable one. It is desirable that people behave well based on their own understanding. rather than threats, and it is desirable that justice should be explicable and not arbitrary. That neither standard can be completely fullfilled is not justfication for abandoning them; some reasoning-based ethics is better than none. These considerations ar

2Rain13y

I was afraid of this: getting into a morality debate when all I wanted to do was identify a quick and simple parallel. The reason I was afraid of it is that I don't have the answers, I don't like standard philosophical terminology (objectivism, relativism, etc.) since I can't translate it, and I'm not very good at arguing in-depth through time-delayed text. I'm sorry; I don't have any answers for you.

-4Peterdjones13y

Downvoted for disagreement, I presume

0mutterc14y

I read once that men should generally avoid showing their feet, because said feet are likely to be uglier than socks or shoes. (Or even Vibram Fivefingers).

0timtyler14y

I see. For me, sandals are light, let my feet breathe, and minimally confine my toes - while socks protect against rubbing and abrasion. Comfort and functionalism trump fashion rules, here.

2Rain14y

When you say function, you mean, "it protects my feet from broken glass and concrete, is easy to put on and take off, and feels good." You've defined 'functionalism' to mean the effects of the item on you rather than including its effects on others. The functional uses of fashion (being attractive, being liked, being approachable, raising the aesthetic average) are very powerful in any location with people around. Some fashionable alternatives to sandals with socks: boat shoes such as Sperry Top-Siders, loafers, or generic slip-on shoes such as Vans, potentially combined with no-show socks or flesh colored ankle socks. Note that fit requirements are important for shoes as well - many people don't realize that their feet require more or less width than is found on a normal shoe. If your toes are constrained, you could try different half-sizes and widths.

2HughRistik14y

Rain said: Excellent point. The notion that the "function" of fashion is merely one's own comfort is incredibly strange. This kind of thinking may be the consequence of all the public fictions about status (e.g. "it's what's on the inside, not the outside, that counts", "clothing is shallow, intellectual pursuits are deep"). Thanks to these public fictions, lots of intelligent, technical people just want to opt out of clothing as a communication channel. Actually, I think it's more "shallow" to want people to use less channels of social communication. Including the clothing channel allows a greater depth of signaling.

0Alicorn14y

Is this a gender thing or something? I don't think I've ever been told that I should avoid wearing socks if I have on a skirt that doesn't fall to ankle length.

9Rain14y

The way I've heard it phrased: * "Do not wear socks with skirts or shorts - the point is to show off your legs." * "Men shouldn't wear shorts unless they're in a sporting event or at the beach - men's legs are ugly." * "Do not wear socks with sandals - the point is to show off your feet." * "Men shouldn't wear sandals - men's feet are ugly." * "Match socks to slacks - your legs look longer." * "Do not match socks to shoes - looks like you're wearing boots." * "You can use socks as a personal detail to make something 'pop' - standard pantsuit, gray, gray, white, brown, then pow, a hint of bright red socks." (Advanced Use) * For all of the above: "...but I have seen it done [well/poorly] on occasion." Note that failing to wear socks can cause damage to the skin around your feet and ankles, depending on the style of shoe or boot, and that wearing thick pants in hot weather can cause dehydration and heat stroke. Physical comfort is near the bottom of the list for fashion. Any use of the word 'comfortable' is only to define a stance or personality. There are 'no-show' or 'ankle' socks which are often used to protect the feet when a sockless look is desired, and lightweight pants to match weather requirements.

0MixedNuts14y

You're right, I hadn't noticed.

0[anonymous]14y

There's also the possibility that they were 'dressing the part'. When doing a quick check on sandals with socks, I noticed at least one person say, "You don't want to look like a professor." If professors are 'the type of people who wear socks with sandals', then more may do so than would occur naturally.

0[anonymous]14y

The purpose of wearing sandals is to show off your feet. One might respond, "the purpose of wearing sandals is to avoid cutting your feet on glass or scraping them on concrete without the hassle of putting on shoes." This is from a functional context. Switching to a fashion context acknowledges that 'foot coverings' are required, therefore, the choice of a specific foot covering can be viewed through an aesthetic lens, in which case, the purpose of sandals is to show off your feet.

1Raemon14y

I love socks with sandals, and I wear them whenever I am unconcerned with making a good impression.

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[-][anonymous]14y-20

Can anyone deny that neckties are the worst invention in the history of man? Why are they not hung from the crotch rather than the neck? Is a bowtie a functional but diminutive member, compared to the flaccid tree trunk that appears to have won out?

Evidence: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=blMN_9ZtxsY

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