Pavitra comments on Reasons for being rational - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Pavitra 02 July 2011 06:44:23AM 6 points [-]

I'm reminded of the discussions in BDSM on how to be submissive in a healthy D/s relationship without being a doormat or being vulnerable to abuse.

Being more comfortable as a follower than as a leader is not necessarily a bug. Just make sure you can pick the right leader to follow.