Zed comments on Those who can't admit they're wrong - Less Wrong

9 Post author: Zed 01 July 2011 05:09AM

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Comment author: MixedNuts 01 July 2011 02:30:20PM 4 points [-]

I'm currently studying a wonderful case of "No! I'm right! Lalala I can't hear you!". It seems to be completely about status. She used to have huge self-esteem issues, and she uses what she calls "confidence" as a protective shell. Changing her mind about something (not admitting to it, just stopping defending it) would destroy it, so she just doesn't. And believes a lot of weird crap as a result, even in her own domain.

Rephrasing the correction as a question? Works.

That's annoying. What do you do if you're genuinely unsure if they're making a specific mistake and want to know? That's like the one where any expression of preference is a demand, so you can't express weak preferences. I hate people.

Comment author: Zed 01 July 2011 05:23:29PM 4 points [-]

That's annoying.

I think so too. But if I were to treat others the way I wish to be treated I wouldn't be able to function in society. I'd drive everybody crazy.