Clarica comments on Rationality Lessons Learned from Irrational Adventures in Romance - Less Wrong

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Comment author: dlthomas 11 October 2011 07:49:38PM 2 points [-]

My only point is that it is not unpaid.

Circumstance 1) I go to my programming job, write programs for other people, and in the end my household has more money than otherwise.

Circumstance 2) Someone goes to a housekeeping job, cleans up after other people, and in the end their household has more money than otherwise.

Circumstance 3) Someone cleans their own household, part of which involves cleaning up after other people, in place of hiring a housekeeper, and in the end their household has more money than otherwise.

Please clarify why circumstance 2 is "paid" and circumstance 3 is "unpaid", and why 3 is less "joyous" than 2; 3 may, in fact, prefer to be cleaning up for people they care about, and may be better appreciated. And who says a choice being "wholly joyous" is relevant anyway? My going to work instead of working on my own projects is the right decision (I believe), but it is not "wholly joyous" - just mostly.