NancyLebovitz comments on Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality discussion thread, part 8 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: NancyLebovitz 29 August 2011 08:21:04PM 5 points [-]

I'd been meaning to raise that question, too.

Dumbledore is talking like a typical administrator from Mediocristan [1]. It's easier in the short run, and the medium run, and sometimes the rather long run, to tolerate bullying if you aren't subject to it. However, every once in a while, you get a civil rights movement or an Arab Spring.

On the other hand, Harry isn't exactly dealing in non-violence, and it's possible that his faith in the effectiveness of punishment is naive. I await further chapters.

[1]Nassim Taleb's name for the condition of being able to make pretty good predictions about tomorrow by simply saying that it will be like today.

Comment author: lessdazed 30 August 2011 05:08:58AM 3 points [-]

It's easier in the short run, and the medium run, and sometimes the rather long run, to tolerate bullying if you aren't subject to it.

I don't think bullying is qualitatively different from normal social interaction, merely quantitatively different.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 30 August 2011 11:20:33AM 14 points [-]

Sometimes quantity has a quality all its own.

Comment author: lessdazed 30 August 2011 09:43:41PM *  7 points [-]

I didn't mean to imply that it wasn't a bad thing. My point is that the standard discussion seems to be about detecting bullies, as if they were a type different than other people. Even when the similarity of bullying to regular behavior is acknowledged, I have heard appeals to magical categories along the lines of "how can we distinguish regular behavior from bullying", as if they were different in kind.

The flawed question of asking how to detect bullies prevents people from having to admit that their own normal children may contribute to social problems, as does pretending that normal social grouping is perfectly fine, zero percent bad, and unrelated to bullying.

It's also an anti-consequentialist focus on behavior rather than its effects.

I think the current debate around bullying is designed to make participants feel self-righteous and as if they were doing something, but not asking the right questions and not able to trade the benefits and lack of costs to the participants for benefits for children.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 31 August 2011 08:08:27AM 2 points [-]

Could you expand on your idea that there's no well-defined difference between bullying and normal social behavior?

Comment author: lessdazed 31 August 2011 11:46:15AM *  9 points [-]

Definitions from wikipedia and http://www.stopbullying.gov, with emphasis added:

Bullying is an act of repeated aggressive behavior in order to intentionally hurt another person, physically or mentally. Bullying is characterized by an individual behaving in a certain way to gain power over another person.[14] Norwegian researcher Dan Olweus defines bullying as when a person is "exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more other persons." He defines negative action as "when a person intentionally inflicts injury or discomfort upon another person, through physical contact, through words or in other ways".[15]

and

What is Bullying?

Bullying is a widespread and serious problem that can happen anywhere. It is not a phase children have to go through, it is not "just messing around", and it is not something to grow out of. Bullying can cause serious and lasting harm.

Although definitions of bullying vary, most agree that bullying involves:

Imbalance of Power: people who bully use their power to control or harm and the people being bullied may have a hard time defending themselves Intent to Cause Harm: actions done by accident are not bullying; the person bullying has a goal to cause harm Repetition: incidents of bullying happen to the same the person over and over by the same person or group Types of Bullying

Bullying can take many forms. Examples include:

Verbal: name-calling, teasing Social:spreading rumors, leaving people out on purpose, breaking up friendships Physical: hitting, punching, shoving Cyberbullying: using the Internet, mobile phones or other digital technologies to harm others An act of bullying may fit into more than one of these groups.

I think power struggles and subgroup formation are part of a normal social dynamic, and these things have negative consequences in a normal social dynamic. I think society has only noticed the most harmful such behavior and is overreacting to the worst behavior and underreacting to most bad behavior. The best social dynamic would still have people getting emotionally hurt as described above, though far less often and intensely.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 01 September 2011 03:04:27PM 5 points [-]

That's an interesting angle, but I think the worst dominance-establishing behavior does enough damage that trying to snip that tail off the bell curve could be worth the trouble. Moving the center of the bell curve towards decency is also a worthy project, but perhaps more difficult.

Comment author: lessdazed 01 September 2011 06:35:39PM *  2 points [-]

the worst dominance-establishing behavior does enough damage that trying to snip that tail off the bell curve could be worth the trouble.

That's not how the project is perceived by people involved in it, at least that's what I presume granted the media they emanate. They don't talk about, and I am guessing they don't think about, what causes normal dominance behavior to progress into the most affecting kind, and the focus is on getting normal people to report rather than change their social behavior.

Quoting the first three paragraphs of the front page NYT article from August 30, which I didn't see when I wrote anything above:

Under a new state law in New Jersey, lunch-line bullies in the East Hanover schools can be reported to the police by their classmates this fall through anonymous tips to the Crimestoppers hot line.

In Elizabeth, children, including kindergartners, will spend six class periods learning, among other things, the difference between telling and tattling.

And at North Hunterdon High School, students will be told that there is no such thing as an innocent bystander when it comes to bullying: if they see it, they have a responsibility to try to stop it.

So the focus seems to be convincing normal people to report, rather than suggesting that they are doing anything at all wrong or that they might, by increasing the severity of normal behavior they are already doing, become targets under the new law. There is no push for introspection nor for considering the feelings of others, the worst people are asked to consider of themselves is that they had not been reporting the bad behavior of others often enough - a small sin.

Does anyone have a guess as to when the first article about the use of this law (taking effect September 1) to bully someone will be written?

Delusional descriptions of a problem generally can't be justified by claims that the description is targeted at the worst behavior or designed to get the most return out of a small investment because an accurate picture of reality is usually the first step to implementing any strategy well, regardless of its resources and scope.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 03 September 2011 08:27:54AM 3 points [-]

It looks as though I was thinking about anti-bullying programs the way I think they ought to be done, and you had the specific example in mind of how current anti-bullying programs are being described..

Anti-bullying programs don't seem to have done a lot of good.

I've read an account of a school-- Great Walstead, a British boarding school in the 60s-- which really didn't have bullying. The head of the school wanted his students to do well, and hated bullying-- it wasn't a pasted-on anti-bullying program. (This is from Frank Schaeffer's Crazy for God, a memoir which is mostly about growing up in a family which was at the top of the early Religious Right-- the description of the boarding school is a minor episode.)

Comment author: lessdazed 03 September 2011 10:26:55AM 0 points [-]

That all makes sense.

Comment author: TuviaDulin 30 August 2011 04:28:27AM 1 point [-]

What I want to know is why Harry didn't accuse Dumbledore and his staff of not doing enough to prevent bullying. I know I would have.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 30 August 2011 11:26:53AM 2 points [-]

The interesting question is whether it didn't occur to Eliezer or it didn't occur to Harry.

I can see it either of them not thinking of it because at this point, Dumbledore is well established as not caring about bullying. It's pretty clear that Harry would have to start from scratch to convince Dumbledore that bullying is something to oppose.

Comment author: wedrifid 30 August 2011 04:55:22AM 2 points [-]

What I want to know is why Harry didn't accuse Dumbledore and his staff of not doing enough to prevent bullying. I know I would have.

He came fairly close back in the early chapters. He was going to start a PR campaign on the subject...

Comment author: TuviaDulin 30 August 2011 05:41:41AM 0 points [-]

Ah. I guess its been too long. Which chapter was this?

Comment author: Solvent 30 August 2011 08:42:48AM 0 points [-]

This was bullying by Snape, not by students. See here.