wedrifid comments on Polyhacking - Less Wrong

75 Post author: Alicorn 28 August 2011 08:35AM

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Comment author: wedrifid 29 August 2011 01:10:19AM 6 points [-]

(instead of doing the sheep dance where you freeze motionless and wait for them to approach)

Actually, what's happening is they're giving the nerdy male 3-4 obvious body language signals telling them to approach. The nerdy male just misses them.

Sometimes. But since Eliezer mentioned girls who think they are unattractive some the signals are probably not nearly so clear.

Comment author: Jack 29 August 2011 01:28:11AM 1 point [-]

You're suggesting the girls think they are unattractive because their unclear non-verbal signaling fails to yield positive feedback from men? This is plausible though Eliezer also mentioned nerdy men who are notoriously bad in this regard.

Comment author: wedrifid 29 August 2011 01:36:06AM 11 points [-]

No, I'm suggesting that "Actually, what's happening" should be "Sometimes what is happening". It isn't only the nerdy guys who aren't playing the game correctly. Sometimes nerdy girls don't signal correctly either, especially those with low self esteem. And that's ok, just something that can be improved on.

Comment author: Jack 29 August 2011 02:06:19AM -1 points [-]

Obviously this is an issue where nearly everything everyone says is a generality and accuracy could be improved by hedging.