jmed comments on Polyhacking - Less Wrong

75 Post author: Alicorn 28 August 2011 08:35AM

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Comment author: Alicorn 29 August 2011 06:13:56PM 10 points [-]

But typically people don't sit around snuggling friends they aren't sleeping with or trying to sleep with.

I do this all the time. When I hang out with the correct subset of my platonic friends we casually flop onto each other and braid each other's hair and exchange backrubs. I have photographic evidence. One doesn't have to be weird about those things.

Comment author: [deleted] 29 August 2011 06:36:29PM 0 points [-]

But typically [...]

I do this all the time.

But do you think it is common/typical/majority behavior?

I concur with your unintended implication that female-female groups do this ("braid each other's hair, exchange backrubs") more often than male-female and male-male pairs do.

Comment author: Alicorn 29 August 2011 06:51:31PM 13 points [-]

I platonically snuggle with some of my male friends too. And I have photographic evidence of some guys I know who are not dating each other snuggling, too.

I guess I don't know how typical it is. I don't know many normal people and suspect they're dull.

Comment author: JackEmpty 29 August 2011 06:52:41PM 4 points [-]

I don't know many normal people and suspect they're dull.

Upvoted for this.

Comment author: [deleted] 29 August 2011 07:04:30PM 1 point [-]

Ditto.

Comment author: [deleted] 29 August 2011 07:07:28PM 3 points [-]

I guess I don't know how typical it is.

It isn't. I know a few normal people ("normal" along this particular dimension of personality/behavior, at least).

You are correct in your suspicions.

Comment author: wedrifid 30 August 2011 01:18:14AM 1 point [-]

I concur with your unintended implication that female-female groups do this ("braid each other's hair, exchange backrubs") more often than male-female and male-male pairs do.

Especially the braiding the hair part...

Comment author: Alicorn 30 August 2011 02:00:31AM 1 point [-]

Guys are less often braidable but I ask when they are.

Comment author: wedrifid 30 August 2011 02:33:04AM 1 point [-]

That reminds me. My hair is just about long enough that I'd be able to accept if asked. Definitely due for a hair cut!