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I suggest self-limiting participation according to these criteria:
Advice seekers: "I want to move from present equilibrium A to desired equilibrium B. Here is my specific problem. What should I do?"
Advice givers: "I have field-tested solution X. YMMV."
Advice takers: "My results, in detail."
"Winning" looks like fewer preventable problems in friendships, dating, sex, and romance.
Letting advice seekers drive the discussion seems like a good idea, but I'm a little leery of the advice givers. Giving advice is fun and that makes it dangerous. Even if you have field tested it, external validity seems like a big problem here. There's enough heterogeneity in behavior that what works for me is not necessarily likely to work for you.
That said, I don't have a better alternative, so why not try out this one.