Well, there's been some talk about organizing a meetup group in my area, and I'm not really comfortable with that.
Are you not comfortable with that happening at all, or not comfortable with being involved in one?
What are your concerns - wasting your time, being perceived as belonging to a "weird" group, being drawn into a group process that is a net negative value to you?
I realize I'm not answering your original question. I'm still thinking about that one.
If it's worth saying, but not worth its own post (even in Discussion), then it goes here.
If continuing the discussion becomes impractical, that means you win at open threads; a celebratory top-level post on the topic is traditional.