You've used a lot of pronouns
I failed to communicate, sorry, I will try again:
One can value rationality/(systematically believing true things and trying to shed false beliefs) as a means or an end.
If a person values personal happiness, can a rationalist present rationality as a way to be happy?
I mean that to care about truth you have to have something to protect. You have to care about what's true because you desperately want to actually achieve a goal, rather than fitting in with the people who talk about achieving the goal.
If rationality requires truth, and truth requires a motivation, can rationality exist as a motivation on its own? To me, it seems not.
I think my wording of the second sentence you quoted actually sabotaged the question I was really asking. Can rationality give a person happiness given that's their goal?
You're talking with someone you like, and they ask you what you mean by rationality, or why you keep going to LessWrong meetups. Or you meet someone who might be interested in the site.
What do you say to them? If you had to explain to someone what LW-style rationality is in 30 seconds, how would you do it? What's your elevator pitch? Has anyone had any success with a particular pitch?
My Current Pitch:
My current best one, made up on the spot, lacking any foreplanning, basically consists of:
"Basically, our brains are pretty bad at forming accurate beliefs, and bad in fairly systematic ways. I could show you one, if you want."
Playing the triplet game with them, then revealing that the numbers just need to be ascending
Upon failure, "Basically, your brain just doesn't look for examples that disprove your hypothesis, so you didn't notice that it could have a been a more general rule. There are a bunch of others, and I'm interested in learning about them so that I can correct for them."
My Thoughts on That:
It's massively effective at convincing people that cognitive biases exist (when they're in the 80% that fails, which has always been the case for me so far), but pretty much entirely useless as a rationality pitch. It doesn't explain at all why people should care about having accurate beliefs, and takes it as a given that that would be important.
It's also far too dry and unfun (compared to say, Methods), and has the unfortunate side effect of making people feel like they've gotten tricked. It makes it look non-cultish though.
I suspect that other people can do better, and I'll comment later with one that I actually put thought into. There's a pretty good chance that I'll use a few of the more upvoted ones and see how they go over.