My wife thinks cryonics is disgusting although she has promised to call Alcor if something bad happens to me. My parents and sister are fine with it. My students are shocked when I reveal it to them but respond with laughter.
I would consider my life to be significantly worse than it is now if I had to sever a lot of these emotional ties.
Perhaps those of us who have signed up for cryonics should get to know each other.
I'm not particularly good at forming new relationships, and I'm very worried that signing up for cryonics will create an insurmountable social stigma that will make it nearly impossible for me to do so.
You can keep it a secret. Chances are if you die you will know ahead of time so not wearing the neckless/bracelet won't greatly reduce your odds of survival. Also, think of cryonics as peacocking.
Perhaps those of us who have signed up for cryonics should get to know each other.
There are a bunch of cryonics-themed meetups on meetup.com, which is inspiring. (I'm going to attend one soon to gather more data, in fact.)
Over the past few months I've been doing a lot of reading about cryonics, and though I agree with the arguments of Eliezer Yudkowsky and Robin Hanson on the issue, I still feel uncomfortable about actually signing up. Upon reflection, my true rejection is my fear of the social cost of cryonics, i.e. being perceived as weird and completely incomprehensible by everyone around me. I've read the "Hostile Wife Phenomenon" article on Depressed Metabolism, the New York Times Magazine article on Robin Hanson's personal situation (as well as Robin's reply), and scores of comments on LessWrong, and it looks a lot of cryonicists do indeed experience the feeling that Eliezer describes in Lonely Dissent.
My concerns about the social cost of cryonics can be broken down into two categories:
Overall, though, I have very little information about what the social cost of cryonics really is beyond a few scattered anecdotes and secondhand descriptions of cryonicists' lives. Ultimately, I don't really know how many of my fears would actually be realized if I signed up. This makes it difficult to for me to make a decision, as I am very risk-averse and I feel reluctant to choose something that could potentially make the next six or seven decades of my life miserable. As a result, I have decided to engage in some data collection.
To do so, I would like to hear about your experiences. If you are currently signed up for cryonics, I would very much appreciate it if you took a minute or two to describe the effects that signing up has had on your relationships and your social life in general. If you are not signed up, your feedback on this topic is still welcome. Links to articles would be good, but discussion of personal experiences would be better.