I am confused.
Suppose you are in charge of estimating the risk of catastrophic failure of the Space Shuttle. From engineers, component tests, and guesswork, you come to the conclusion that any given launch is about 1% likely to fail. On the strength of this you launch the Shuttle, and it does not blow up. Now, with this new information, what is your new probability estimate? I write down
P(failure next time | we observe one successful launch) = P (we observe one successful launch | failure next time) * P(failure) / P(observe one success)
or
P(FNT|1S) = P(1S|FNT)*P(F)/P(S)
We have P(F) = 1-P(S) = 0.03. Presumably your chances of success this time are not affected by the next one being a failure, so P(1S|FNT) is just P(S) = 0.97. So the two 97% chances cancel, and I'm left with the same estimate I had before, 3% chance of failure. Is this correct, that a successful launch does not give you new information about the chances of failure? This seems counterintuitive.
To fully interpret a probability distribution you need to use integrals. For example, if I have a probability distribution over the number of heads in 50 coinflips and I want to know the probability that the observed value is going to fall within a certain interval, I have to take the integral of that part of the distribution. You can definitely understand what a probability distribution is without calculus, but you're going to have a hard time actually doing the math.
Edit: It occurs to me that statistical software could do most of the number-crunching for you, which would definitely make things easier.