GilPanama comments on Better Disagreement - Less Wrong

70 Post author: lukeprog 24 October 2011 09:13PM

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Comment author: Grognor 23 October 2011 09:23:33AM *  9 points [-]

I like this post, even though it doesn't add much to Paul Graham's original essay. I mean, I wouldn't have seen this content if it were not posted on Less Wrong.

For all of my life until this year, I've been confounded by DH2 arguments against myself. Why are my opponents ignoring what I say because I said it angrily, or sadly, or confrontationally, or in passing, or whatever? Well, I don't like when people do that, but it doesn't change the fact that people do it, so I've started to adopt a more pleasant, acceptable tone.

I still don't like it. I don't like that I have to adopt a certain style to be taken seriously. But oh well.

Edit, 4/04/12:

I've started to adopt a more pleasant, acceptable tone.

I was deluded when I said this.

Comment author: GilPanama 23 October 2011 08:33:35PM *  17 points [-]

Why are my opponents ignoring what I say because I said it angrily, or sadly, or confrontationally, or in passing, or whatever?

The way you say something may signal that you are trying to diminish their status. If you say it with a sufficiently negative tone, it may even be taken as a signal (a generally reliable signal) that you care more about diminishing their status than about having a truth-seeking discussion.

In other words, what wedrifid said, but less simply and more explicitly.

Comment author: wedrifid 23 October 2011 09:51:45PM -1 points [-]

Exactly!