Perhaps you may want to invoke Crocker's rules?
Simply a suggestion, no further implications intended.
Edit: Actually, still with no further implications intended beyond simple curiosity: if not, why not? I would be curious if you think the concept is a useful tool in a situation like this.
Oh yeah. Added.
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Thank you. I apologize for making a discussion post that is all about me.
I operate by Crocker's Rules.