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Comment author: Alejandro1 06 December 2011 09:10:10PM 54 points [-]

On the difficulties of correctly fine-tuning your signaling:

I once expressed mild surprise at the presence of a garden gnome in an upper-middle-class garden …. The owner of the garden explained that the gnome was “ironic”. I asked him, with apologies for my ignorance, how one could tell that his garden gnome was supposed to be an ironic statement, as opposed to, you know, just a gnome. He rather sniffily replied that I only had to look at the rest of the garden for it to be obvious that the gnome was a tounge-in-cheek joke.

But surely, I persisted, garden gnomes are always something of a joke, in any garden—I mean, no-one actually takes them seriously or regards them as works of art. His response was rather rambling and confused (not to mention somewhat huffy), but the gist seemed to be that while the lower classes saw gnomes as intrinsically amusing, his gnome was amusing only because of its incongruous appearance in a “smart” garden. In other words, council-house gnomes were a joke, but his gnome was a joke about council-house tastes, effectively a joke about class….

The man’s reaction to my questions clearly defined him as upper-middle, rather than upper class. In fact, his pointing out that the gnome I had noticed was “ironic” had already demoted him by half a class from my original assessment. A genuine member of the upper classes would either have admitted to a passion for garden gnomes … or said something like “Ah yes, my gnome. I’m very fond of my gnome.” and left me to draw my own conclusions.

Kate Fox, Watching the English (quoted here).

Comment author: Bugmaster 06 December 2011 09:44:42PM 24 points [-]

Ah yes, my gnome. I’m very fond of my gnome.

Oh I am so getting my own gnome, just so that I can use that phrase on people.

Comment author: RichardKennaway 12 December 2011 02:23:21PM 16 points [-]
Comment author: Nominull 07 December 2011 11:48:59PM 28 points [-]

Perhaps he's ultra-high-class, and is only defending the object-level irony of his garden gnome ironically.

Comment author: Teal_Thanatos 07 December 2011 11:26:57PM 13 points [-]

I upvoted this half because I laughed and half because I now want a gnome.

Comment author: Multiheaded 19 May 2013 01:53:50PM *  3 points [-]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/U_and_non-U_English

Amusing illustration through a 1950s sociolinguistic study.

(Damn, I swear there was a far longer discussion on signaling and countersignaling around here, can't find it.)

Comment author: Alejandro1 19 May 2013 02:57:46PM *  0 points [-]

Yes, many of those words and their role as class shibboleths are discussed in Fox's book as well. IIRC, according to her in some cases there are three levels; either three different words for one thing used in lower, middle and upper classes, or (matching the counter-signaling in the gnome story) the same word being used in the lowermost and the uppermost classes.

Comment author: FiftyTwo 20 December 2011 12:44:16AM 3 points [-]

Out of interest, how does this read from a non-uk perspective?

Comment author: arundelo 20 December 2011 01:35:55AM 3 points [-]

I'm American and I thought it was quite funny.

Comment author: FiftyTwo 20 December 2011 02:22:43AM 1 point [-]

Funny in abstract or funny as in hauntingly familiar? ;)

Comment author: arundelo 20 December 2011 02:37:29AM *  2 points [-]

Familiar -- but a little bit of both. It's a commonplace that English/British society is classful in a way that American society is not. That may well be true (I'm not qualified to judge), but America definitely has its own class distinctions. I would have trouble, though, putting them on a "lower, middle, upper-middle, upper"-type scale.

On the other hand, I guess the story struck me mainly as an example of someone using irony as a personality statement, which can be done without reference to class. Just today when I was at the store I was idly playing with the idea of buying a Hello Kitty iPhone cover. (I am a 38-year-old male.)

Edit: I can't think of an American analog of the garden gnome (we have them over here, but if they're as fraught as they are over the pond it's gone over my head), but when I try to think of a home-and-garden decoration that I would only display for irony (or maybe if a dear friend gave it to me), I think of a Thomas Kinkade painting.

Comment author: JoshuaZ 20 December 2011 02:03:15AM 1 point [-]

The degree of class issues isn't as conscious in the US (although by many metrics there's actually less class mobility in the US) but it still comes across as both funny and insightful.

Comment author: FiftyTwo 20 December 2011 02:28:35AM 2 points [-]

Someone, (whose identity I can't recall, some commentator or comedian) said that the British have class in the same way Americans have race.

Not sure how true that is, but a middle class Indian person probably has more in common with a middle class white person in the UK.

Comment author: Prismattic 20 December 2011 03:22:52AM 2 points [-]

For a historical perspective, take a look at John C. Calhoun's statements on the need for racial hierarchy precisely to avoid the rise of class divisions among white Americans.

Comment author: Pfft 16 December 2011 12:02:37AM *  3 points [-]

Maybe the story should be captioned "on the ease of fine-tuned signaling"? After all, the gnome-owner very effectively did communicate his class. On the other hand, deceiving people about your class is hard. But it's hard partly because there are so many way for people to send credible signals, so an absence of signaling becomes evidence on its own.

Comment author: Alejandro1 16 December 2011 04:16:42PM 8 points [-]

Hmm, what I had in mind when I wrote the caption was something like this:

The man's social model had three classes: lower class (owns gnomes non-ironically), middle class (would never own a gnome), upper class (can own a gnome "ironically" as a joke on low-class tastes), and he aimed for signalling upper-class status. He failed at fine-tuned signalling because he did not realize that his "upper class" behavior is actually upper-middle; true upper classes are allowed to own gnomes and genuinely like them, and don't need to defensively plead irony because they have no lingering anxiety about being confused with lower classes.

Comment author: Pfft 21 December 2011 05:30:10AM 5 points [-]

But how do we know that he aimed at signalling upper-class membership?

The alternative I'm proposing is that middle-class people will not try to deceive others about their social position (because that would never work in the long run), but they are adopting lots of signalling about their true position, in order to not get mistakenly perceived as being lower than their true position during short encounters.

I think this is consistent with common folk-wisdom about classes. I have often heard claimed that the primary concern of the lower-middle class is to distinguish themselves from working class. I have never heard it claimed that their primary concern is to pass as middle-middle class.