TheOtherDave comments on Issues with the Litany of Gendlin - Less Wrong

16 Post author: Raemon 10 December 2011 05:25AM

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Comment author: Raemon 10 December 2011 06:12:57AM *  1 point [-]

I get the point of the litany, but there's a reason people go into denial about things. Yes, if your girlfriend actually hates you, you are going to need to face that reality and you might as well do it sooner. But owning up to it absolutely makes it worse in the near term.

Comment author: TheOtherDave 10 December 2011 06:52:45AM 4 points [-]

I'm not sure about "absolutely." I'm often surprised by how much energy I end up spending on not-thinking about things I don't want to face, and consequently how much better my life gets immediately upon giving up that not-thinking, completely independent of the long-term strategic benefits of thinking.

Comment author: Raemon 10 December 2011 06:57:31AM 0 points [-]

Fair statement. I think it depends a lot on how much evidence has accumulated in favor of the Hard Truth in question.