NEW IDEA EDIT- Somewhere like Brookville, OH (north-west of Dayton) seems to be within an hour and a half of Cincy, Cbus, and Indy. How would you feel about that?

Hmm... I haven't been to one of these meetups before, so I don't know how awesome they are, but I'm generally pretty skeptical too spend more time driving than doing whatever it is I'm driving to. I think that I'd rather just skype with you guys and save the 3 hours.