Alicorn comments on Just another day in utopia - Less Wrong

78 Post author: Stuart_Armstrong 25 December 2011 09:37AM

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Comment author: Alicorn 25 December 2011 10:06:58PM *  12 points [-]

It's stated that she broke up with the last guy because he wanted to be monogamous and it would follow that the current guy probably doesn't want that.

Comment author: [deleted] 26 December 2011 11:00:59AM *  4 points [-]

I had interpreted “his need for monogamy” as the need for him to be monogamous, but now I realize that a relationship where you commit to not have sex with other people but your partner doesn't is pretty unlikely (ETA: and even so, it would be unlikely to make Ishtar want to break up with Albert), and so Albert needed both to be monogamous.

Comment author: TheOtherDave 26 December 2011 03:16:23PM 10 points [-]

One-sided monogamous relationships aren't all that uncommon; I know of several. As with a lot of non-standard practices involving monogamy, couples who practice it often don't tell their friends and family about it. (Also, individuals who practice it often don't tell their partners about it, but culturally we tend to put that in a different category.)

Comment author: wedrifid 26 December 2011 11:40:24AM 4 points [-]

I had interpreted “his need for monogamy” as the need for him to be monogamous, but now I realize that a relationship where you commit to not have sex with other people but your partner doesn't is pretty unlikely

At least, it is in our particular culture.