That really seems like a self sabotaging religious doctrine! I'm surprised that the number leaving is so low!
So am I, which means its time for both of us to revise our models.
The Shakers managed to maintain a stable membership of over a thousand for almost a century despite a blanket prohibition on sex.
Background info: a splinter group, which broke off from the LDS ("Mormon") church ~100 years ago, refusing to give up polygamy, has been in the headlines over the last year; their leader was sentenced to life in prison for rape of teenage girls he took as plural wives.
Deseret News, Sex banned until Warren Jeffs' prison walls crumble, FLDS relatives say
Eliezer, Evaporative Cooling of Group Beliefs
This doesn't simply seem to be a case of a new weighted average after some skeptics are gone (only 1% of FLDS have left). There are other dynamics going on among those remaining.
The image that comes to my mind is a lot of points scattered along a skepticism/fanaticism axis, and a repelling magnet placed on that line. This magnet pushes the already-skeptical values into greater skepticism (and out) and pushing the more fanatical members into greater fanaticism. How well does that actually represent what's going on? Not sure.