I've noticed that very smart people often go to great effort to spend time with other very smart people; and then, instead of listening to them, try to talk as much as they can. Which defeats much of the purpose of spending time with very smart people.
I think this is an interesting observation, but I find myself wondering if it really does defeat the purpose. When conversing with someone I suspect is smarter than me, I tend to value direct, critical responses to my own statements and speculations more than whatever smart thing happens to be on their mind. It's far easier (for me) to learn from having been wrong than it is just from hearing something that turns out to be right. I can't elicit as many of those responses if all I do is listen.
Good point. Though, often, the smart person doing the talking doesn't seem to be in doubt about his/her ideas.
From Marginal Revolution:
A result that shouldn't surprise this group. I've noticed obvious attempts to avoid this tendency in Less Wrong (for instance, Yvain's avoiding further Christian-bashing). We've had at least one post asking specifically for information that was unique. And I don't know about the rest of you, but I've already had plenty of new food for thought on Less Wrong.
But are we tapping the full potential? Each of us has, or should have, a secret identity. The nice thing about those identities is that they give us access to unique knowledge. We've been asked (though I can't find the link) to avoid large posts applying learned rationality techniques to controversial topics, for fear of killing minds, which seems reasonable to me. Is there a better way to allow discipline-specific knowledge to be shared among Less Wrong readers without setting off our politicosensors? It seems beneficial not only for improved rationality training, but also to enhance our secret identities. For instance, I, as an economist-in-training, would like to know not just what an anthropologist can tell me, but what a Bayesian-trained anthropologist can tell me.