mattnewport comments on Of Gender and Rationality - Less Wrong

41 Post author: Eliezer_Yudkowsky 16 April 2009 12:56AM

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Comment author: mattnewport 16 April 2009 04:11:03AM 16 points [-]

I would say both.

For much of our evolutionary history the idea of a consumption partner rather than a production partner would have been an unaffordable luxury. Desirable properties in a mate were primarily those that would support survival and reproduction.

I think the claimed preference is also weaker in reality than people think. This is a common theme in the seduction community. What people are actually attracted to is not necessarily what they say they are looking for - sexual attraction is not based on a conscious rational weighting of positive and negative attributes.

Comment author: taryneast 21 March 2011 02:14:20PM 0 points [-]

Really interesting link, and I'd never thought of it that way before either.

Also - extra points for being the very first comment referencing the seduction community that actually provided a net plus to the conversation (regardless of gender) ;)

Comment author: MBlume 16 April 2009 04:14:14AM 0 points [-]

Thank you for the link -- I'd never seen that distinction made before and I suspect now I'm going to see it everywhere.