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"Not having a side" doesn't have to mean being unable to argue a side, it can instead mean being able to argue several different sides. If I can do that, then if someone insists that I argue a position I can pick one and argue it, even knowing perfectly well that I could just as readily argue a conflicting position.
In the real world, knowing that there are several different plausible positions is actually pretty useful. What I generally find professionally is that there's rarely "the right answer" so much as there are lots of wrong answers. If I can agree with someone to avoid the wrong answers, I'm usually pretty happy to accept their preferred right answer even if it isn't mine.
This is the part that I can't do. It's almost like I can't argue for stuff I don't believe because I feel like I'm lying. (I'm also terrible at actually lying.)
I figured out a long time ago that I don't like lying. As a result, I constructed some personal policies to minimize the amount of lying I would need to do. In that, we most likely are the same. However, I also practiced the skill enough that when a necessity arose I would be able to do it right the first time.