(Note: the reason why I haven't replied to this comment isn't that I wouldn't find it useful, but because I haven't had the time to answer it - so far SI has preferred to keep me working on other things for my pay, and I've been busy with those. I'll get back to this article eventually.)
Here's my draft document Concepts are Difficult, and Unfriendliness is the Default. (Google Docs, commenting enabled.) Despite the name, it's still informal and would need a lot more references, but it could be written up to a proper paper if people felt that the reasoning was solid.
Here's my introduction:
And here's my conclusion:
For the actual argumentation defending the various premises, see the linked document. I have a feeling that there are still several conceptual distinctions that I should be making but am not, but I figured that the easiest way to find the problems would be to have people tell me what points they find unclear or disagreeable.