You guys are very willing to insult me personally, but I am rather trying not to go personal (albeit it is rather difficult at times). That doesn't mean I don't say things that members of community can't take personally; still, in last couple days I've noticed that borderline personal insults here are tolerated way more than i'd consider normal while any stabs at community (or shared values) are not, and the disagreements tend to be taken more personally than normal in technical discourse.