Are you thinking of the time when I said arguing with you wasn't fun, or something worse than that?
I don't recall you saying that. (ie. If/when you did say that it didn't etch itself in my mind as a glaring social defection worth remembering).
I'd like to know because I honestly can't remember writing any comments that might be considered "flagrant"
What you consider ok may be different to what I consider ok.
I'm not saying your tone isn't better than most, but I'm certainly going to dispute it whenever you are put up on a pedestal as "wonderfully consistent". (ie. I don't want to bring up history, but claims of consistency are historical claims, and false ones at that!)
What you consider ok may be different to what I consider ok.
Let me put it this way then: I can't recall doing anything worse than saying that arguing with you wasn't fun, and certainly nothing that deserves being called "flagrant", which my dictionary defines as "Conspicuously bad, offensive, or reprehensible". If you still want to stand by your statement, then I think I deserve to see at least one example of what you are talking about.
I'm worried that LW doesn't have enough good contrarians and skeptics, people who disagree with us or like to find fault in every idea they see, but do so in a way that is often right and can change our minds when they are. I fear that when contrarians/skeptics join us but aren't "good enough", we tend to drive them away instead of improving them.
For example, I know a couple of people who occasionally had interesting ideas that were contrary to the local LW consensus, but were (or appeared to be) too confident in their ideas, both good and bad. Both people ended up being repeatedly downvoted and left our community a few months after they arrived. This must have happened more often than I have noticed (partly evidenced by the large number of comments/posts now marked as written by [deleted], sometimes with whole threads written entirely by deleted accounts). I feel that this is a waste that we should try to prevent (or at least think about how we might). So here are some ideas: