MrHen comments on Rationalistic Losing - Less Wrong
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Soul-crushing is a bummer but is technically optional. If you can train yourself away from soul-crushing it may make losing better for you. The same goes for winning: if winning holds no intrinsic value other than "Haha! I won!" I would argue that the incentives are purely emotional. This is not necessarily a bad thing, but I like to get more of my contests than feeling good about winning or feeling bad about losing. Personally, I get more emotional satisfaction from learning something new or cool.
Here is a link to Lost Purposes for those who need one.
I agree with your point. Most of what I talked about is only terribly relevant for contests such as board games where the rewards for winning are easily measured. When losing holds a significant loss factor such as a generation of children not learning science, playing to learn makes no sense and it is time to play to win.
Agreed. The big gap in my article that I left out for brevity are examples of physical contests. If someone stabs me with a sword, I die. Playing to learn would make no sense in a sword fight and losing is most decidedly not good.
(Edit) After thinking a little more, I would relate "Lost Purposes" to this article with the following question: "What is the purpose of winning?" Don't win just because you are supposed to win. Win because it has value.