I wrote,
Now suppose that I am so unfortunate as to forget the value of the utility-ratio u(salmon)/u(tuna).
But, on reflection, the possibility of forgetting knowledge is probably a can of worms best left unopened. For, one could ask what would happen if I remembered that I was highly confident that I would choose salmon over tuna, but I forgot that I was absolutely certain about this. It would then be hard to see how to avoid inconsistent utility functions, as you describe.
Perhaps it's better to suppose that you've shown, by some unspecified means, that u(salmon) > u(tuna), but that you did so without computing the exact utility-ratio. Then you become certain that you choose salmon over tuna, but you no longer have the prior subjective uncertainty that you need to compute the ratio u(salmon)/u(tuna) directly. That's the kind of case where you might be able to find some other piece of prior subjective uncertainty, as I describe in the above paragraph.
In the standard approach to axiomatic Bayesian decision theory, an agent (a decision maker) doesn't prefer Act #1 to Act #2 because the expected utility of Act #1 exceeds that of Act #2. Instead, the agent states its preferences over a set of risky acts, and if these stated preferences are consistent with a certain set of axioms (e.g. the VNM axioms, or the Savage axioms), it can be proven that the agent's decisions can be described as if the agent were assigning probabilities and utilities to outcomes and then maximizing expected utility. (Let's call this the ex post approach.)
Peterson (2004) introduces a different approach, which he calls the ex ante approach. In many ways, this approach is more intuitive. The agent assigns probabilities and utilities directly to outcomes (not acts), and these assignments are used to generate preferences over acts. Using this approach, Peterson claims to have shown that the principle of expected utility maximization can be derived from just four axioms.
As Peterson (2009:75,77) explains:
Jensen (2012:428) calls the ex ante approach "controversial," but I can't find any actual published rebuttals to Peterson (2004), so maybe Jensen just means that Peterson's result is "new and not yet percolated to the broad community."
Peterson (2008) explores the ex ante approach in more detail, under the unfortunate title of "non-Bayesian decision theory." (No, Peterson doesn't reject Bayesianism.) Cozic (2011) is a review of Peterson (2008) that may offer the quickest entry point into the subject of ex ante axiomatic decision theory.
Peterson (2009:210) illustrates the controversy nicely:
I'm not a decision theory expert, so I'd be very curious to hear what LW's decision theorists think of the axiomatization in Peterson (2004) — whether it works, and how significant it is.