JGWeissman comments on The Power of Reinforcement - Less Wrong

96 Post author: lukeprog 21 June 2012 01:42PM

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Comment author: JGWeissman 21 June 2012 05:35:09AM 3 points [-]

I suspect it is common enough that when you observe that praising someone doesn't reinforce their behavior or makes them uncomfortable, you should consider that they might have an unusual aversion to praise.

Comment author: pjeby 21 June 2012 04:41:34PM 9 points [-]

I suspect it is common enough that when you observe that praising someone doesn't reinforce their behavior or makes them uncomfortable, you should consider that they might have an unusual aversion to praise.

And also, that you might just be really bad at it. ;-)

This was my problem for quite a while: believing that I ought to praise people, while alieving that there wasn't anything to praise and that they didn't deserve it, due to all their obvious imperfections.

This, as you can imagine, produced sub-optimal results. ;-)

Comment author: AdeleneDawner 21 June 2012 06:27:00AM 1 point [-]

Yep. It's not a situation you're likely to come across often, but when you do, it's worth having the alternate theory available to check.