One possible idea: if I was the son of an African warlord, and I had the ability to make my parents' political decrees more compassionate if I talked to them after they blew off steam torturing people, but I could instead make them torture fewer people by talking to them beforehand.
Here my intuitions say I should let the individuals be tortured in exchange for effecting large scale policy decisions.
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