Why should rationalists necessarily care a lot about other people?
They shouldn't, particularly. End goals are not a part of rationality, rationality exists to achieve them.
However, many end goals can be more easily achieved by getting help from others. If your end goals are like this, it's rational for you to solve group coordination problems and care about other people.
This sequence ran from March to April of 2009 and dealt with the topic of building rationalist communities that could systematically improve on the art, craft, and science of human rationality. This is a highly forward-looking sequence - not so much an immediately complete recipe, as a list of action items and warnings for anyone setting out in the future to build a craft and a community.