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People who have read this book seem to think it is polite or pleasant to repeatedly use a person's first name in conversation.
Perhaps it was so, in the 1930s. However, I suspect that something has changed since then, namely, the popularity of this book with salespeople. Today, repeatedly using a person's name in conversation makes you sound like an overly ingratiating salesperson who's read Dale Carnegie. Don't do this; it's creepy.
Don't do it repeatedly, sure, but do it at least once in each conversation, I'd expect.