Pablo_Stafforini comments on Summary of "How to Win Friends and Influence People" - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Alicorn 01 July 2012 06:32:25PM 10 points [-]

It's easy to overdo, but there's still a ways to slide up the spectrum before it comes off that way. You can be like "Bob, what do you think?", instead of "Hey, what do you think" plus looking at Bob intently. Also works okay while delivering a compliment - "Bob, you're hilarious!".

Comment author: Pablo_Stafforini 07 July 2012 08:20:27AM *  1 point [-]

Yes. I would add greetings and farewells to the class of social contexts in which addressing someone by his or her name is desirable. 'Hi, Bob' and 'Bye, Tina' are almost always preferable to 'Hi' and 'Bye', respectively.