I want to support the idea of learning styles for two reasons. First, it seems unlikely to me to think that everyone learns the same way - even that the majority of people learn the same way. Secondly, we know specific ways in which people understand and handle such basic operations as counting fundamentally differently (see this Feynman passage "It's as Simple as One, Two, Three..." for an amusing anecdote about this). My prior says that learning styles are very likely.
If studies are saying that 'learning styles' don't matter, then I would say that the problem is that we haven't figured out what the real learning styles are and how to target those, not that there are no learning styles. The ones teachers talked about during school struck me as naive - but I bet there are some real ones out there.
"Who are you going to believe, me or your lying eyes?"
It seems to me you are hypothetically placing anecdotes over data here. Any reason why?
Re: original post: I agree that many many kids are overeducated given their hardware.
Post by fellow LW reader Razib Khan, who many here probably know from the gnxp site or perhaps from his debate with Eliezer.