Sooner or later, most people find some tenet of their religion that they disagree with, or think is silly, or even horrible, but they're convinced that God wills it. How do you disagree with God?

In my experience, people in non-fundamentalist religious traditions tend to change their God to match their new opinions.

(That's no way to live either, but at least it can be less mentally burdensome than blaming oneself.)

Edit: I'm saying that sincerely, and I hope it doesn't come off as smarmy/ignorant atheism. It's an accurate description of most of the liberal religious people I know.