aelephant comments on "Epiphany addiction" - Less Wrong

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Comment author: lukeprog 04 August 2012 02:21:36AM *  19 points [-]

When I was young I was known as "the shy one," and I was awkward around girls. So I started reading instructional books on dating. A few chapters in, each book said "The most important thing is that you put down this book right now and go practice the thing I just told you to do." But I just kept reading, because I was learning so much, and having all those epiphanies felt like getting stronger.

After two years of epiphany addiction and no sex, I finally took some liquid courage and went out and actually talked to women. And then I started to become stronger.

If CFAR and the JDM community can invent an applied rationality that reliably makes people more powerful, it won't be because they've written lots of epiphany-producing writing. It will be because they've discovered teachable rationality skills that can be practiced day after day.

Comment author: aelephant 04 August 2012 03:51:56AM 4 points [-]

Analysis is essential, but it has a time & place.

In the PUA community they even have a term for people stuck in the Analysis mode: "Keyboard Jockeys".