Some of our experience amounts to cognition or alleged cognition of the external world - the apple is red, it is sitting on the table, etc. But some does not - it is just an internal aspect of the way we sense the world. Philosophers call the latter "qualia".
You're the victim of the basic cognitive fallacy called substitution (Kahneman). In place of the difficult problem (the existence of raw experience), you substitute the easy problem of our ability to recognize our own internal states. Philosophers have distinguished the two problems, and have even dubbed them the hard and easy problem of consciousness. While I deny the problem is very hard (except perhaps emotionally, if you're religiously committed to raw experience as your essence), it remains true that you have substituted the easy problem for the hard. In short, that's not what "philosophers have called qualia."
Armchair philosophy cannot reveal the full and exact reference of terms, "qualia" included. Understanding the reference of terms requires doing science.
This must be a revisionist version of Yudkowskyism. Somewhere Eliezer points out that science is merely an institution that proves things so rigorously that every moron must accept it. He points out (in an essay I can't locate--help would be appreciated) that the Greeks already saw the impossibility of actual infinities.
In short, that's not what "philosophers have called qualia."
That would have a chance to be convincing if you stated an alternative account of what philosophers have called qualia. Saying "raw experience" leaves everything open, including the possibility that some internal aspects of the way we sense the world are raw experience.
As for science, if it makes you happy - or if it doesn't - I wish to revise my statement: understanding the reference of terms as well as possible requires doing empirical work. (Science is just the best wa...