Kindly comments on Let's be friendly to our allies - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Kindly 16 August 2012 12:35:55PM *  6 points [-]

The problem is I would rather spend my time discussing posts I like rather than critiquing posts I don't like. In this case, I saw that someone had already started the meta-discussion, so I downvoted and didn't pursue the matter further.

I am sorry that this hurts someone else's agenda. But I don't want to be a part of that game. And I don't appreciate efforts to guilt me into taking part.

Comment author: handoflixue 16 August 2012 10:32:28PM 0 points [-]

And I don't appreciate efforts to guilt me into taking part.

I don't think he's trying to guilt you, he's just offering reasoning and discussion for his own stance. He's providing more information than a simple down vote, and I think that should be applauded.

I will admit the original post could have probably been written better, but I don't think we should be discouraging someone from questioning voting - especially when they're willing to engage in discourse, provide feedback, and suggest alternatives. It's an essential dialogue to keeping our garden well tended, even if his tone was a bit accusative ("I'm disappointed" instead of "Hey, what's going on here?")

Comment author: Kindly 17 August 2012 12:00:52AM 1 point [-]

I don't have a problem with people talking about upvotes and downvotes (well, actually, I do have a problem with it in many cases, especially when it's replacing what could be actual discussion, but that's not what's going on here, so it's beside the point). It's the argument in this post that bothers me, and that's what I'm trying to address here.