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Comment author: Incorrect 07 September 2012 06:54:45PM 20 points [-]

Do not initiate intimate physical contact (hugs, touching shoulder, etc) unless the target has previously made similar contact with you.

If everyone follows this rule nobody will ever initiate physical contact.

Comment author: fubarobfusco 07 September 2012 08:40:28PM 19 points [-]

For a better-phrased example of this rule, see the code of conduct from the OpenSF polyamory conference:

No touching other people without asking! (Or unless you already have that sort of relationship with them.) We really mean it. This means no random hands on knees, shoulders, etc. We know this is California and everyone hugs, but please do that awkward "wanna hug?" gesture before actually hugging. When in doubt about any kind of social or erotic touching, please ASK FIRST. We have attendees who do not like to be touched, and they will like you much better if you respect their personal space.

Comment author: Eliezer_Yudkowsky 08 September 2012 01:09:34AM 3 points [-]

The OpenSF code of conduct seems pretty good in general.

Comment author: fubarobfusco 08 September 2012 01:11:26AM 1 point [-]

It does! Want to clone it for the Singularity Summit?