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Comment author: hg00 08 September 2012 03:26:21AM *  3 points [-]

Well, even if rape is not an adaptation, men still do it. So it seems plausible that whatever baggage evolved along with rape (from however long ago) would also still be present.

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 03:30:31AM 0 points [-]

Well, even if rape is not an adaptation, men still do it.

Making sandwiches is not a genetic adaptation. Men still do it.

Comment author: hg00 08 September 2012 03:35:55AM 3 points [-]

Are you suggesting rape doesn't happen among hunter-gatherers? What does "adaptation" mean, exactly?

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 05:22:33AM 10 points [-]

Are you suggesting rape doesn't happen among hunter-gatherers?

No, but I am suggesting it's probably not been selected for as a genetic predisposition due to the fitness it supposedly brings. The cost/benefit ratio seems pretty damn bad. Let's assume a man of 25 (great fertility, past the peak risk-of-mortality age on a pure-forager's lifespan curve, presumably able to provide for himself to greater or lesser degree.) Assume he only targets women of peak reproductive age, 25 to 30 years (this is very generous for the rape-as-adaptation argument; in reality rapists are known to target women of any age, from single-digits to senescence), thereby maximizing expected payoff per act.

He loses fitness if:

-He is killed by the victim or her relatives. How likely this is depends entirely on his culture -- some forager band societies are quite pacifistic; others resort quickly to violence and have no real way to regulate its spread. It's a pretty strong risk, though.

-The mother refuses to raise the child. This is unlikely to happen, but in a society with high infant mortality rates and established protocols for socially-legitimate infanticide by abandonment or handing off to a relative for culling (standard practice in societies like these if the baby is more than 48 hours old; otherwise the mother usually does it), it's not socially-costly behavior either.

-Having a reputation as a rapist makes it harder for him to survive. This is a virtual certainty -- cooperative food acquisition, compulsory sharing and an ethic of reciprocity are standard features of societies like these. Cutting someone off from this network of assistance is as good as a death sentence in most cases; it also means he's unlikely to ever get consensual sex, or medical assistance when he's hurt. I can't overstate how bad an outcome this is, and how likely it is to happen -- tribal societies don't keep many secrets!

Meanwhile, he gains fitness if and only if all of the following happen: -The victim is potentially able to concieve on that given day AND -She does (the cumulative on these first two items equals 3 - 5 percent odds of conception for consensual sex), AND -She doesn't then miscarry (true 90 percent of the time), AND -She won't voluntarily let the unwanted baby die (not sure, but estimates for the probability of routine infanticide in paleolithic cultures ranges from 15 percent on the lower end, up to 20 or even 50 percent in some cases). No idea offhand, but it seems a heck of a lot more likely than it would be today in the Western European culture area.

You'd have to get incredibly lucky to have a payoff even once; it's certainly not a viable reproductive strategy, not even a distant also-ran that some minority of the population favors. Human population densities in the EEA simply don't support it.

So the fact that rape is common suggests that it's happening for some other reason than it being an evolutionarily-fixed, advantageous trait.

Comment author: Nick_Tarleton 08 September 2012 06:42:53AM 8 points [-]

Upvoted for careful thinking even though I probably disagree with the conclusion.

Comment author: DanArmak 08 September 2012 07:19:02PM 6 points [-]

Having a reputation as a rapist makes it harder for him to survive. [...] tribal societies don't keep many secrets!

On the other hand, in most contemporary and historical agricultural societies, rape is often kept secret, and women have incentives not to make public accusations. This has been true for long enough to allow for some quite drastic changes in behavior to spread through natural selection (on, say, mostly existing variation).

Comment author: Emile 08 September 2012 10:37:22PM 11 points [-]

I find it hard to believe that a tendency to rape (or more specifically, the psychological traits that make one more likely to be a rapist today) wouldn't have been a fitness advantage in at least some of our forager ancestors. There are too many examples in societies close to our own where various forms of rape or were forgivable/forgiven (by society, not necessarily by the victim): rape of foreigners in war, marital rape, rape as punishment, protection of the rapist by an influent member of his family, marrying the rapist ... sure, some of those situations may not happen in a forager society, but there may be different ones that do happen.

Having a reputation as a rapist makes it harder for him to survive

This supposes that the society in question has a concept of "rapist" analogous to our own; I suspect many societies would have different concepts, and only harshly punish some of the behaviors (rape of enemies and marital rape seem to usually get off the hook, except in very recent history).

As an illustration of the way different societies approach the problem, I've already been in a conversation with African men who were saying how under certain conditions rape was an acceptable way of getting sex from a girl.

That being said, I don't know much about how foragers approach the question of rape, I'm merely skeptical of the idea that they have very few children of rape.

Comment author: Emile 09 September 2012 09:27:56PM 3 points [-]

There are too many examples in societies close to our own where various forms of rape or were forgivable/forgiven (by society, not necessarily by the victim): rape of foreigners in war, marital rape, rape as punishment, protection of the rapist by an influent member of his family, marrying the rapist ...

Also, date rape of course, duh.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 08 September 2012 05:49:09AM 8 points [-]

Observe that if he's unlikely to be able to have sex otherwise, it's worth the risk.

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 09:05:03PM 1 point [-]

No way -- kin selection. He can still net genetic fitness by helping out his social unit, which will almost invariably contain his relatives, who share some of his genetic payload. Conversely, raping someone is likely going to be terminal in some fashion, which eliminates any chance of getting lucky later. Even if they only cast him out instead of killing him, his chances of successfully mating later drop precipitously.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 08 September 2012 09:21:06PM 4 points [-]

I don't think we can know much about how social norms and rape played out in the early environment.

There are competing pressures. Unless someone is very low status, throwing them out is likely to be disruptive to the group.

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 09:39:08PM *  1 point [-]

I don't think we can know much about how social norms and rape played out in the early environment.

We can make some inferences from mobile foragers who've maintained some cultural distance from the outside world, though -- they're not a perfect substitute, but they tell us something about patterns of human behavior and existence in the absence of other economic or ecological resource bases.

It's certainly a whole lot more likely to be, at minimum not entirely off-target, than you'll be semi-consciously conflating "hunter-gatherer" as a synonym for "primitive", assuming that all societies without industrialization or intensive agriculture of the type one recognizes are in that category, failing to account for the spread of of particular value-systems and norms that have widely impacted societies around the world, and hyper-focusing on chimps to the exclusion of other primates as analogues for our own evolutionary history (which is what I'm seeing and responding to here).

Comment author: beoShaffer 08 September 2012 09:58:04PM 5 points [-]

As someone with almost no vested interest in the conversation I'm not going to do the (rather extensive) work it would take to provide a good summary of the science of rape, however I find it odd that this conversation seems to be completely ignoring that fact that it is a heavily researched area, particularly by evolutionary psychologists. As a representative example this experiment suggests a link between status manipulations and additudes towards rape, and the evo-psyc journal it's in has 50+ other articles that mention rape, even though its less than ten years old.

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 08 September 2012 10:41:31PM 2 points [-]

Is there any way to check on whether those sorts of simulations are a good model for attitudes which haven't been affected by experimenters?

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 10:16:00PM -2 points [-]

I'm aware of the evo psych research into the subject of rape. I disagree with it, but I'm aware of it, I've read some fair portion of it, and I think that the idea that rape is a behavioral adaptation driving a reproductive strategy is flawed.

Comment author: drethelin 08 September 2012 05:40:08AM 4 points [-]

[citation needed]

If nothing else, a reputations as a "rapist" is not at all the same thing in a society where women aren't considered to be people, but property. Hunter gatherers as well as civilization at least up to the biblical level have also engaged in Bride kidnapping (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bride_kidnapping) Which we would definitely think of as rape but clearly wasn't viewed in the same way at those times. Genghis Khan didn't get to be the ancestor of 8 percent of people in east asia by being nice. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Descent_from_Genghis_Khan)

You seem to be doing a lot of theorizing about ancient behavior on very little data, because you don't want rape to have been adaptative.

Comment author: J_Taylor 08 September 2012 05:09:10PM 2 points [-]

It should be considered rude to post:

[citation needed]

and then offer irrelevant information to back up your point.

Comment author: drethelin 08 September 2012 05:24:21PM 2 points [-]

I agree that the first part is rude, but how is information irrelevant? It's an undisputed example of violent tactics working for reproduction, and a description of how the culture of many societies either endorsed or did not frown on what we would see as rape.

Comment author: J_Taylor 08 September 2012 05:44:06PM 5 points [-]

The article on bride kidnapping contained no hunter-gatherers, as far I could see.

It's an undisputed example of violent tactics working for reproduction, and a description of how the culture of many societies either endorsed or did not frown on what we would see as rape.

I do not think it wise to attempt to extrapolate information about the EEA from contemporary (or even merely ancient) societies whose material conditions do not resemble the conditions of bands in the EEA. (Hell, I don't even know if we can extrapolate information from modern bands. All of this is an incredible epistemic mess.)

Genghis Khan didn't get to be the ancestor of 8 percent of people in east asia by being nice. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Descent_from_Genghis_Khan)

I do not dispute the truth of this fact. However, the ruler of the largest contiguous land empire in history is not the sort of fellow we wish to be looking at in order to determine whether or not rape was adaptive in the EEA. If you were interested in answering such a question, I guess you would want to look at some folks like the Hadza and observe how reproductively successful fellows like Scumbag Sengani, a hypothetical rapist, end up being.

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 05:29:35PM 1 point [-]

It's irrelevant because Neolithic-era societies are not representative of plausible assumptions about the evolutionary ancestral environment or early human and protohuman lifestyles. It's not an example of the thing being talked about; it has no direct bearing on it; ergo, it's irrelevant.

Comment author: drethelin 08 September 2012 05:36:27PM 1 point [-]

We have evidence that chimps rape, and we have evidence that Neolithic societies rape. You need to provide strong information that somewhere between those two states of existence(taking the way chimpanzees live now as an very broad approximation of how our great great great ancestors lived), it became evolutionarily unfavorable to rape, but not enough to keep civilized people from doing it

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 07:03:50PM 7 points [-]

taking the way chimpanzees live now as an very broad approximation of how our great great great ancestors lived

Bad assumption. We're genetically equidistant from chimps and bonobos, who are pretty nearly opposite in their social and sexual behavior.

Did that common ancestor favor one strategy, or the other? Or neither one, or a mix of the two? Is the chimp model an adaptation subsequent to that divergence? Is the bonobo model one? Are both?

Comment author: J_Taylor 08 September 2012 06:05:40PM *  2 points [-]

We have evidence that chimps rape

taking the way chimpanzees live now as an very broad approximation of how our great great great ancestors lived

We do share a common ancestor with chimps, yes. From this common ancestor is descended both chimps and bonobos.

Given the existence of bonobos, I do not see why chimp-rape is particularly relevant to the question of whether or not rape is adaptive in humans. That is, given the existence of bonobos, it seems uncertain whether or not the common ancestor of chimps and humans (who is also the common ancestor of humans and bonobos) was, how to put this, a rape ape.

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 05:45:16AM 0 points [-]

If nothing else, a reputations as a "rapist" is not at all the same thing in a society where women aren't considered to be people, but property.

That does not describe forager societies at all.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hunter-gatherer#Common_characteristics

Comment author: drethelin 08 September 2012 05:58:43AM *  1 point [-]
Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 02:00:33PM 2 points [-]

The Yanomamo are horticulturalists. They grow bananas, manioc and other crops available in the wild by means of slash-and-burn and managed planting. They are not an example of a forager (aka hunter-gatherer) society.

Comment author: waveman 09 September 2012 06:15:34AM 2 points [-]

They are were (using past tense because of the changes they have undergone) a hybrid culture. They did agriculture but the crops were low-quality and they also relied heavily on hunting and also on gathering. For a man to prove himself a worthy husband for a woman, he had to do "bride service" which basically amounted to providing meat from hunting to the bride's family for a year or two.