Nick_Tarleton comments on How to deal with someone in a LessWrong meeting being creepy - Less Wrong

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Comment author: Athrelon 07 September 2012 08:08:27PM *  12 points [-]

It's entirely possible (I'm imagining being meek and social risk-averse) in the same way as it's entirely possible to grow up poor and stay out of trouble with the law. It's a lot easier to be creepy if you're low-status, and much of the behavior that is deemed creepy would not be called creepy if a high-status person did the exact same thing (think "quirky," "endearing," "charming").

In practice, cracking down on creepiness means excluding low-status people, except for a meek remnant.

Comment author: Nick_Tarleton 08 September 2012 06:12:32AM 4 points [-]

"Status" is not quite the right term here — social rank correlates with the kind of charm that can make an ambiguous behavior be not-creepy, but isn't the same.