wedrifid comments on How to deal with someone in a LessWrong meeting being creepy - Less Wrong

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Comment author: wedrifid 08 September 2012 06:40:46PM 2 points [-]

Well, yeah, someone you wouldn't like to have sex with hitting on you is creepier than someone you would like to have sex with hitting on you (obviously -- why the hell would the latter be creepy at all?)

In answer to the second question---If done so awkwardly, in a way that violates local norms or expectations or in a way that makes you look bad in public. (These are all things other than being low status that seem to play a part in the 'creepiness'.)

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 08:34:48PM 1 point [-]

I was about to answer "Well, if they behaved like that then you'd most likely not want to have sex with them (any longer)", then I realised that if we interpret counterfactuals this way, my comment would be nearly tautological.

Comment author: wedrifid 08 September 2012 08:44:57PM 1 point [-]

I was about to answer "Well, if they behaved like that then you'd most likely not want to have sex with them (any longer)"

Those are certainly unattractive traits and would often be sufficient to remove the desire. But no, the effect isn't anywhere near strong enough to make the potential tautological definition valid.

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 08:55:20PM *  1 point [-]

Huh, yeah. I had in mind a sense of "creep" according to which it'd be logically contradictory to simultaneously be creeped out by someone and want to have sex with them, but now I realise i had no good reason to think that.

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 09:17:53PM 4 points [-]

I guess I'll tap out now (at least for a couple days), both because I feel like I'm borderline mind-killed and likely to get more so if I continue, and because I've already already procrastinated away way too much RL stuff.