DanArmak comments on How to deal with someone in a LessWrong meeting being creepy - Less Wrong

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Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 09:07:09AM *  -1 points [-]

Like how starting a conversation with a stranger who doesn't want to talk to you is unwelcome, and thus creepy?

You seem to be underestimating how easy it is to guess beforehand whether or not a stranger would want to talk to you. See the comment thread to this. (Well, I disagree that complimenting a stranger's netbook is necessarily creepy, but...)

Comment author: DanArmak 08 September 2012 08:08:56PM 14 points [-]

Well, I disagree that complimenting a stranger's netbook is creepy, but...

This disagreement on what is creepy demonstrates precisely how hard it is to predict in advance if some behavior will be perceived as creepy or not.

Comment author: Dre 10 September 2012 07:06:58PM 1 point [-]

Though I don't think its that simple because both sides are claiming that the other side is not reporting how they truly feel. One side claims that people are calling things creepy semi-arbitrarily to raise their own status, and the other claims that people are intentionally refusing to recognize creepy behavior as creepy so they don't have to stop it (or being slightly more charitable, so they don't take a status hit for being creepy).

Comment author: [deleted] 08 September 2012 08:27:50PM *  0 points [-]

I should have said/thought had said "is necessarily creepy". (Fixed now.)