Alicorn's request was exactly that.

A request is not exactly an obligation. If you disagree, I request that you give me all your money.

What else could the words possibly mean?

I think my words above mean that I have uttered an unreasonable request that someone with healthy boundaries would ignore.

(Note that even if you happen to believe people have the particular rights of control over others that Alicorn has claimed your reply here would still seem to be confusing the nature of the relationship between verbal symbols and obligation.)