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Comment author: Eugine_Nier 08 September 2012 08:38:58PM 15 points [-]

What I find really annoying is the following dynamic:

1) not allowed into existing groups, people without social skills form their own group

2) said group acquires higher status (largely because people without social skills frequently have other useful skills)

3) people with social skills notice the new group with rising status and start joining it

4) said high-social-skills people use their skills to acquire high positions in the group and start kicking the original low-social-skills people out

This more-or-less describes the history of geek/nerd culture over the past several decades.

Comment author: [deleted] 27 April 2013 09:24:21AM 0 points [-]

I find really annoying

Whining about it doesn't strike me as the thing to do. Trying to adapt to it in the short term and/or to fix it in the long term would be better IMO.

Comment author: Eugine_Nier 28 April 2013 01:54:13AM 4 points [-]

Well, one component of fixing this dynamic is drawing people's attention to it. Especially people who may be unknowingly perpetuating it.

Comment author: [deleted] 28 April 2013 09:03:03AM 0 points [-]

Yes.