There's a difference between finding a global maximum of a function and finding the local derivative and moving infinity towards a local maximum.
Even if your actual utility function were for one group to have higher status, that does not imply that the greatest utility comes at the highers imbalance.
And if your preferences aren't transitive, you don't have a valid utility function. If you find yourself in a cycle of preference, you have probably failed to accurately judge two or more things which are hard to compare.
The problem isn't that I might see a hot babe and care about her more than other people, but that when the numbers are bigger I care about everyone the same amount. It's that it probably dependent on things like whether i have seen them, and how much I know about them. If I was told by a perfectly reliable source that X is a hot babe by my standards, that would not make me care about her more than other people. But it would if I saw her. So what I want is not just dependent on what I believe, but on what I experience. On some figurative level, I'm a Mealy ...
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