Blackened comments on Open Thread, September 1-15, 2012 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: [deleted] 13 September 2012 03:45:33PM *  8 points [-]

I'm pretty sure greater gender equality in a society translates into women who are less likely to say they look for status in mates. To a certain extent it seems plausible that it influences behaviour, I'm very sceptical of the implied argument that "high status in men" ceases to be a key sexy trait if you just have the right culture though.

The participants were asked in their native language whether certain criteria (such as ‘financial prospect’ and ‘being a good cook’) were important in choosing a mate.

Did they put "is well liked by other women" or "someone who my friends consider cool" on that list?

Comment author: Blackened 18 September 2012 08:24:25PM 2 points [-]

Sexuality is a strange thing. If you consciously think something is sexy, it then becomes sexy for you. At least that's how it works for me, I'm generalizing from one example here.

Comment author: [deleted] 19 September 2012 06:08:24AM 2 points [-]

In our society the consensus seems to be it doesn't quite work like that, at least when it comes to things like say homosexuality.

Comment author: Blackened 19 September 2012 08:42:56PM 1 point [-]

I didn't say that sexuality is entirely shaped by this, only that it's influenced. Say, when I read that hourglass-shaped women bodies are supposed to be attractive, I started noticing that I think I'm attracted to that, although one can argue that I used to be before I read it, so I only started noticing that. However, it worked for me for other things, many of which are not liked by many people.